How to Write the Perfect Valentine's Day Card (2024)

Tell your nearest and dearest how much you care.

By Angela Belt and Kate McGregor
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Lost for words this Valentine's Day? In a world where everything is digital and getting an answer is just a few clicks away, thinking up original Valentine's Day messages or wishes can feel like a daunting task, especially if you're in a new relationship or trying to find the right words to tell your bestie you love them. Well, House Beautiful is here to help. We've found 80 happy Valentine's Day messages you can use to express yourself with ease this February 14—a Wednesday this year, don't forget!

In grade school, there was nothing more special than getting valentines from your classmates and crush. With a little consideration, you can craft a message that gives your lucky recipient the same feeling. First, set the tone for your Valentine's Day card with a strong opening. You can use nicknames or pet names to make it feel personal, but make sure it's clear what type of Valentine's Day message you're sending. February 14 is arguably the worst day to send mixed messages or misleading signals. The opening phrase should mirror the relationship you currently have with the person, whether it's a funny Valentine's Day message for a friend or a romantic Valentine's Day message for a crush.

When writing your Valentine's Day message, make sure to personalize it. Include a personal anecdote about a time they made you feel special, a moment you felt proud of them, or something funny they did to cheer you up. A personal memory will enhance any Valentine's Day card. When signing off your Valentine's Day message, use the last line or two to reiterate how much they mean to you or describe what you hope for the next year together, then close with a classic term of endearment like "Love," "Yours," or "Always."

While card format is important, it really is the message that counts. Below you'll find 80 messages and wishes to choose from for your valentine, from kid-friendly puns to heartfelt messages for your spouse.

Romantic Valentine's Day Messages

  • Every scar. Every flaw. Every imperfection. I love you.
  • Night and day, I dream of you.
  • You complete me.
  • To me, you are perfect.
  • It's just one day in the year, but you should know that I love you every day and every moment.
  • I love that we've never lost the magic that makes us us.
  • I love you today, tomorrow, and all the days after that.
  • Right from the start, you stole my heart.
  • In the words of Walt Whitman, "We were together. I forget the rest." Happy Valentine's Day, my love. I'm so glad you are mine.
  • Thank you for bringing so much love, joy, and adventure into my life. I love you.
  • You still make me laugh. You still give me butterflies. And I'm still falling for you every single day. Happy Valentine's Day!
  • I'm so lucky to be in love with my best friend.
  • Through all the seasons, through all of time, I love you. Happy Valentine's Day.
  • This will definitely be a kids-in-bed-early kind of night. XOXOXO
  • To another Valentine's Day spent with the love of my life, and to many more.
  • To my Valentine—I never knew what love was until I met you.
  • Happy Valentine's Day to the most beautiful woman I know.
  • "Love is friendship that has caught on fire." —Ann Landers
  • Every love song is about you. Happy Valentine's Day!
  • Happy Valentine's Day to the most important woman in my life.
  • I never liked Valentine's Day—until I met you and learned what it was all about.
  • You're the one. I've never been so sure of anything in my whole life.
  • I fell in love with you because of all the small things you don't even realize you're doing.
  • To another Valentine's Day spent with the love of my life, and to many more.
  • Whenever I'm with you, wherever we are, I'm home.
  • I never believed in luck until I found you.
  • Here are all the ways I'm a better person because of you.

Cute Valentine's Day Messages

  • Happy Valentine's Day! My favorite place in the world is next to you.
  • You are my sunshine, my only sunshine.
  • You may hold my hand for a while, but you hold my heart forever.
  • I love you more than coffee.
  • Thank you for being mine.
  • You make me feel like the heart-eye emoji.
  • The best things in life are better with you.
  • I met you. I liked you. I love you. I'm keeping you.
  • Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my favorite.
  • Thank you for making me laugh and smile every single day since the day we met.
  • Like you and me, some things are just meant to be.
  • Know why I have a library card? Because I'm checkin' you out.

Funny Valentine's Day Messages

  • You're the only person I send heart-eye emojis to.
  • You're the Jim to my Pam.
  • You still make me laugh like crazy. That's true love.
  • Are you a banana? Because I find you a-peel-ing.
  • All you need is love. And pasta.
  • Love you to the moon and back—and with technology, maybe even to Mars and back someday soon.
  • Will you be wine? I love ya merlots.
  • I wish you a Happy Valentine's Day! The chocolates are coming later (if I don't eat them all first).
  • All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt.
  • Thanks for putting up with me all this time, and I'm sorry to say it might be quite a while longer. Happy Valentine's Day!
  • I love you more than anything, even Beyoncé or chocolate! Happy Valentine's Day.

Valentine's Day Messages for Your Galentine

  • Romance was entirely out of the question for both of us. But in so removing it we found something far greater: We found friendship.
  • You're my best friend and my partner in crime. Thank you so much for being you.
  • At the heart of it all, we're friends. I love that. I love you.
  • You're in all of my best memories.
  • When it comes to friends, you're the MVP.
  • Thanks for showing up. Every. Single. Time.
  • Happy Valentine's Day to one of my favorite people. Ever.
  • Besties are the best dates.
  • You're a cut above the rest, my friend!
  • To a goddess, a hero, an icon…. happy Galentine's Day!

Sweet and Simple Valentine's Day Messages

  • We may not know exactly what this is just yet, but I like it. A lot.
  • I love spending time with you.
  • Wishing you happiness and love in the coming year!
  • What a wonderful day full of sweets, flowers, and love. Wishing you all the best this Valentine's Day.
  • Sending you heartfelt wishes for a very special Valentine's Day!
  • Happy Valentine's Day! You're a wonderful person with a beautiful heart!
  • Wishing you lots of happiness and goodness in life and lots of success. Wishing you Happy Valentine's Day.
  • Wishing you everything that makes you happiest, today and always. Happy Valentine's Day!
  • You make me smile!

Kid-Friendly Valentine's Day Messages

  • Happy Valentine's Day! Remember not to eat too much candy—you're sweet enough already.
  • You make me laugh and smile every day. I love you!
  • U R 2 cute!
  • This Valentine is for the coolest person in our family—from the other one, of course.
  • I can't think of a cuter cutie pie to wish the happiest Valentine's Day to!
  • You're my favorite love bug in the whole wide world!
  • I feel a little luckier every day to have a kid like you.
  • Couldn't be prouder of you. Couldn't love you more.
  • Hope your day is just as awesome as you are!
  • I go bananas over you.

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Angela Belt

Angela Belt is the contributing Assistant Shopping Editor at House Beautiful. She's also an interior designer and is the host of her own podcast, The Mood Board. When it comes to design, she's an esteemed expert with some of her work also appearing in HGTV, Better Homes & Gardens, The Washington Post, and more.

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Kate McGregor is House Beautiful's Digital Editor, writing in-depth home renovation cost guides, design inspiration stories, and plant care guides. With over five years of experience writing commerce and search-optimized content for brands like Domino, Real Simple, and Architectural Digest’s Clever, Kate has developed a passion for uncovering the personal stories that often lie behind the inspiration for people’s spaces. She previously worked as the assistant market editor at ELLE Decor where she identified top products and brands in the industry and interviewed emerging designers about their thoughts on the latest interior design trends. Kate holds a bachelor’s degree from Belmont University. When not researching the specificities of begonia plant care, you can find Kate scouring vintage markets for the ideal wrought-iron chair, knitting yet another cardigan, or reading historical nonfiction.

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How to Write the Perfect Valentine's Day Card? ›

This could be something as simple as “Just thinking of you,” or a bit weightier, such as “I don't know where I'd be without you and wanted to make sure you know how I feel.” Within the body of the letter, focus on the unique things you love about your partner. What's the most cherished memory you share?

How to write the perfect Valentine's card? ›

This could be something as simple as “Just thinking of you,” or a bit weightier, such as “I don't know where I'd be without you and wanted to make sure you know how I feel.” Within the body of the letter, focus on the unique things you love about your partner. What's the most cherished memory you share?

What is the best message for Valentine's Day? ›

Valentine Messages For Lover
  • You're sweet, strong, smart and sexy. ...
  • Every time I'm with you, the room gets a whole lot hotter.
  • You are my lover, my partner, my inspiration, my best friend, my one and only, my life. ...
  • From the first touch in the morning to the last kiss at night, I love every little romantic thing we share.

What is the proper way to write Happy Valentines Day? ›

The correct spelling of the holiday is Valentine's Day. Happy Valentine's Day!

What is a short sweet Valentine's quote? ›

Cute Valentine's Day Wishes

You may hold my hand for a while, but you hold my heart forever. I love you more than coffee. Thank you for being mine. You make me feel like the heart-eye emoji.

How do you write a meaningful Valentines letter? ›

In your Valentine's Day letter, be sure to include a warm salutation, shared memories, expressions of gratitude, and future intentions, and don't forget a sincere conclusion and a personal signature to make it extra special.

What is the best quote for Valentine's Day? ›

Cute Valentine's Day Quotes
  • “You are the person I never knew how to write, and this life is the story I have always wanted to tell.” — ...
  • “Unless you love someone, nothing else makes sense.” — ...
  • “You are what I never knew I always wanted.” — ...
  • “For love, I'd do anything.
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How do you say happy Valentine's Day in a unique way? ›

Short & Sweet Happy Valentine's Day Messages
  1. Happy Valentine's Day to my ride or die.
  2. My favorite love story is ours.
  3. To the only person I would share my snacks with.
  4. I love you the most.
  5. We go together like hot sauce and everything.
  6. I love you even when I'm hungry.
  7. There's never a dull moment when I'm with you.
Feb 8, 2024

How to wish someone a happy Valentine's day? ›

Happy Valentine's Day wishes
  1. Happiness begins with you.
  2. You're not the most important person. You're the only person.
  3. The good things in life are better with you.
  4. I love the way you love me.
  5. My favorite place to be is with you.

What words to use for Valentine's day? ›

List of Valentine's Day Words
LoveCupid
AppreciationLace
DateSpecial
DoveCherish
BeautifulRomeo
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Can I say happy Valentine's day to anyone? ›

This day is not just about the celebration of romantic relationships, which most people assume it is. You can celebrate the day with your friends, family, and anyone you love.

What is a short verse for Valentine's Day? ›

1 John 4:7-12. Dear friends: let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.

How to end a Valentine's card? ›

When you're ready to bring your romantic love note to a close, keep things short and sweet to make your message more impactful. One of our tips for how to sign a Valentine's card is to sum up your feelings with a simple phrase (like "Love you, always") and finish with your name.

What do you write in a Valentine's card for someone you just started dating? ›

Valentine messages for New Relationship or Dating
  1. Yay! ...
  2. I love spending time with you.
  3. You bring out the better in me.
  4. Thanks for reminding me how much fun dating is.
  5. I'm so excited to be sharing our first Valentine's Day together. ...
  6. And they say dating is supposed to be tough—you make it seem easy to me.
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Valentine's Day Messages for Romance
  1. I love you more than all the stars in the sky. ...
  2. With you, every day feels like Valentine's Day.
  3. You are beautiful inside and out and I'm so lucky to be yours.
  4. You're my forever love and I'm so grateful to have found you.
  5. Be mine today, tomorrow and forever.
  6. You give my heart peace.
Jan 8, 2024

What to write on a Valentine's card from a secret admirer? ›

Anonymous Messages

I wish I could tell you how I feel about you. Just so you know, I think you're amazing/funny/clever/beautiful/perfect. Maybe next year I'll find the courage to sign my name. From your secret admirer.

What to write in a Valentine's Day card for a boyfriend to make him? ›

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  • I love all of our adventures, and the fun we have together. ...
  • Thank you for reminding me to laugh, be silly, and have fun, even on bad days. ...
  • Life wouldn't be the same without you, I love you so much.
  • You are the kindest person, and I am so lucky I get to spend each day with you.
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